There’s a certain protocol that should be thoroughly understood and effortlessly executed on the first tee. Although this list might seem like a lot to remember, it’s all worth it. Done right, all these habits will go unnoticed. Done wrong, you’ll be the center of attention for reasons you’d rather not be.

Here are some things to think about:

Be quick, but don’t hurry:   Be ready to take the tee when it’s your turn – but don’t hover.  This could make the group in front of you feel rushed.

Introductions:   If you’re playing with strangers, quickly write down their names and a brief description of each person, so you won’t forget.  If you do happen to forget, try to sneak a peek at their scorecard or bag tag, rather than asking them again.

Mark your ball:   You should get into the habit of marking your golf balls with a permanent marker exactly the same way every time. Once your group takes the tee, tell the other players what type of ball you’ll be starting with and how it’s marked. This shows that you’ve done this before, that you intend to abide by the rules, and that you expect the same from them.

Prepare your pockets:   Good golfers are precise—sometimes to the point of superstition—about what, and how many of each, is in their pockets. I use a 3-2-1 method: three tees, two ball marks, and one divot tool. Having too much crammed into a pocket is distracting and makes it difficult to find things efficiently. Since I’m right-handed, I keep that stuff in my front right pocket to avoid having to fish it out with my glove-wearing left hand.

Tee it up properly:    First, always tee it between and up to two club-lengths behind the markers. Next, tee the ball with just one hand, and in one swift, graceful motion to the turf by positioning the tee between your first two fingers, cigarette style and holding the ball in the cup at the top of the tee in place with your thumb. Then, while leaning on your golf club for balance, bend down and push the tee into the ground.

 These are perfect examples of things that, when done properly, go totally unnoticed. When they aren’t, you’ll look like a moron.